Here are 4 top reasons men tend to stray on their wives and girlfriends.
1.) Feeling Like They Are Constantly Being Nagged
One of the biggest reasons why men cheat results from a feeling of constantly being nagged in a relationship. Nothing makes a man feel more emasculated and like he’s not good enough than a wife or girlfriend who constantly complains and nags.When this happens, a man stops feeling admired by the woman he’s with. He starts feeling like nothing he does is ever right. Nothing is good enough. Once a man starts to feel like he is no longer loved and admired for who he is, it is difficult for him to remain happy in a relationship. At that point, he starts looking for that admiration from another woman.
2.) Feeling As Though Their Wife Or Girlfriend Doesn’t Understand Them
The next reason men often give for cheating is feeling like their wife or girlfriend doesn’t understand them. Men and women have very different needs and wants in a relationship. For example, men need to feel admired. Women most often need to feel accepted. Men also need to feel needed in a relationship, they value independence, and they have a strong need and desire to be successful.When a woman doesn’t understand these basic needs, then it can be difficult to understand why a man does the things he does. For example, he works long hours not because he doesn’t want to be home with the family or because he doesn’t want to contribute to the relationship, but rather because he has a need to be successful. If a woman doesn’t understand situations like this, then it can be a stimulus to constant fighting.
Eventually a man simply wears down. Eventually, it’s not worth it anymore. The thought is, “She doesn’t get it. She never will.” Once a man feels like this, finding another woman who understands him can seem like the only way to be happy again.
3.) It’s Exciting
Some men are adrenaline junkies. Excitement drives them and nothing is more exciting or a bigger adrenaline rush than cheating on a wife or girlfriend and knowing there’s the possibility of being caught. It’s like the excitement of having sex in a public place where there’s the possibility of being seen by someone else. The thrill of being caught makes the interaction with a new love interest that much more pleasurable and addicting.Put simply, some men crave playing with fire. If these are the type of men you date, then it’s important to keep things exciting so he gets his adrenaline fix from you and not someone else.
4.) His Sexual Fantasy Is To Be With Multiple Women Throughout His Lifetime
Many of the richest and most beautiful women in the world get cheated on. For example, Sandra Bullock, Elin Woods, Jennifer Aniston, and Shania Twain have all been cheated on, and they only scratch the surface of beautiful women who have found themselves in the middle of an affair.So that brings up the question, why do men cheat even when they’re dating a hottie? Good looks, fame, and fortune clearly aren’t enough to keep some men from cheating. One possible explanation for this is that many men have fantasies about being with many different beautiful women throughout their lifetime. They crave variety.
These fantasies can take hold of a man’s mind. In fact, it is said that a man’s most erogenous zone isn’t in his pants. It’s in his head. Thus, even when a man is with a woman who has supermodel looks, the relationship can lose its appeal over time. Men get used to having the same thing over and over again, and at some point they just want something different. When the opportunity presents itself, they take it.
Little tweaks to your appearance can help counteract these fantasies in your own man’s mind. By changing up your appearance and experimenting with different kinds of sexy attire, role playing, and changing up your routine in the bedroom, you can make your man feel like he is experiencing any entirely different woman from time to time. And that should help keep his sexual appetite for someone new at bay.
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