Award winning R&B singer Dare Art Alade and his wife Deola Ayeni
Art-Alade have been married for 10 years.
In an industry where marriages crash per-minute, we thought to ask him
the secret to his successful union that’s already blessed with two kids.
‘By just taking things easy, it’s the grace of God. Also, spending time
with your family, it is important to realize what is important to you,
put your family first. You have to protect your family and you keep
answers to such questions very short. You don’t want to say too much,
saying too much is unnecessary. It’s really nobody’s business. The
tongue and teeth fight but still in the same mouth. Brothers and sister
have arguments too. Nobody has a perfect relationship but it is how you
manage yourself that is important. Once you start involving the public
or different people, it gets a bit difficult. I didn’t get married
because I want to count 50 years or what people will say about me, I got
married for myself’ he said.
Reacting to a statement made by Flavour in 2016 where he said ‘it’s
impossible to be in the industry and have a successful marriage’, Darey
says, ‘what am I supposed to think? He was speaking for
himself lol! He wasn’t talking about me. How do I answer the question
when I am living in the situation? I am already an answer to the
question. But away from that, there are lots of responsibility involved
in marriage and if you are not ready for it, then you are not ready for
it, but it is important to speak for yourself. You can’t generalize’.
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