Cheating has become a very common problem in many relationships. The
after effect of being caught cheating is emotional damage which can be
disastrous to the person being cheated on. Unfortunately, however,
having sex with someone outside your marriage or relationship is not the
only form of cheating. There are other forms like cyber cheating, text
message “chexting” and emotional cheating but for the benefit of this
poll, we will be focusing on the really common ones which are physical
“sexual” cheating and emotional cheating.
Emotional Cheating as
defined by Wikipedia is the relationship between a person and someone
(other than their spouse) that has an impact on the level of intimacy,
emotional distance and overall dynamic balance in the marriage (or their
real relationship) i.e a person forms a very deep emotional bond with
someone else apart from his or her partner.
Cheating emotionally on your
partner is when you find yourself spending little time on him or her
and focusing all your attention on the person you are in an emotional
relationship with.
With emotional cheating, you are, most of the
time, contented with just being close with the person but at the
detriment of your own relationship because you find yourself worried,
spending more time; on phone and physically, and always wanting to
impress them and make them happy. It is mainly finding emotional
satisfaction with someone else apart from the person you are dating
unlike physical cheating where it is mainly setting out to find sexual
fulfillment outside their relationship.
With physical cheating,
you do not have to form any bond (most times) to be sexually intimate
with someone outside your relationship. All you need to do is make your
intention known and let there be an agreement. It could be a one night
stand with a stranger, prostitute or random hump in the bed with an ex
or continuous activity with a side chick. In this form of cheating,
there might be no loss of emotional connection but the person cheating
may find himself constantly being disconnected sexually with his
significant other. He or she may find it very hard connect with the
spouse in the bedroom which may kill that relationship eventually.
So, my question today needs your answer below. You know what to do, take the poll and let me know how you feel.
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